Marriage is not a destination

Assalamualaikum..
Today, i just feel like writing about marriage..
Not mine, but just a thought..

Alhamdulillah, sejak menginjak ke usia 24 ni x putus2 lah jemputan diterima daripada sahabat handai.. Daripada kawan sekolah rendah, menengah, asasi mahupun degree.. Alhamdulillah, i am happy for them n i do pray for their happiness.. It seems that time flies so fast that i could not belive that my friends are getting married..

Nevertheless, the stories of broken marriage always  alarmed me.. One after another.. somehow, i never know that 2 souls who have promised to live together forever can be broken and separated.. I might not understand as i have never been in one.. But, it makes us the single afraid to get married.. I know that it was like sailing a boat.. Sometimes the sea was calm and peaceful, but it may change to storm in no time.. But, to see it wrecked always broke my heart..

So, i think it's okay to marry late then marry a wrong person.. Maybe, He delayed my time because He knew that I can hardly attached to one. He let me free to learn more, explore more and appreciate more of His knowledge and His world.. Besides, searching for the true meaning of living in this worldly life besides than just living..

I jz want to share that i jz lost someone that i really hope to spend the rest of my life.. It took me sometime to recover, but yes it will never heal.. The scar was there and it hurts sometime, yet it still keep me smiling of remembering the memories... It taught me that we can only plan, but He has the masterplan and His plan always be the best.. And it gives me strength to support my colleagues who experienced the same.. At this age, we're not looking for a temporary companion and fun but a serious and long term relationship to sail the boat to a same and permanent destination, jannah inshaAllah..

In conclusion, may Allah bless all the marriage couple with sakinah, mawaddah wa rahmah.. May it lasts till jannah, inshaAllah.. (Not just for the sake of #tilljannah but a truthful prayers) and may He grants us "the single" a peaceful life and guidance to improvise ourselves and of coarse a pious, patience and great husband to be with, inshaAllah aminn..😊